I found out that my husband of ten years was having an affair. I had put on weight after our second child was born and just couldn’t get it off. He started doing things away from home more often and eventually told me that he just wasn’t in love with me and was leaving. I was an emotional wreck for almost a year when I finally was getting tired of feeling sorry for myself. I found a life coach for women who specialized in life transitions. She helped me see that just because he didn’t love me, didn’t mean no one else wouldn’t. She made me feel strong and made me take a look on the inside of myself. I am much more confident today. Although I haven’t yet found the perfect partner, I am very confident and happy with myself the way I am.